realization.

"if you aren't happy single, you aren't happy taken..
happiness comes from within, not from other men/women."

its true, all my dearest dearest lovely friends. That we don't need to find happiness from any crazy human. we shapes ourselves, not them. we WANT happiness, we WILL get them. life is about choices, and you should know by now that only you can handle you.

Pain and aches are inevitable, but Suffering is OPTIONAL. don't fall deeper when you're already hurting. why suffer? because of how much you feel for him/her? its infuriating to be falling in love with a person that doesnt reciprocate it back. SO WHAT. walk away. because if he/she is dumb enough to walk away, then be smart enough to LET IT GO.

life is so much more.

stay positive, feel good about yourself, aim higher, do better. No, not to kick their asses, but to make yourself into a better person.

look at us? in our silly twenties :) filled with so much passion and drive. we all have ups and downs, relationship that fails and ache, but doesn't it makes us all better?

EXPERIENCES and MOMENTS, we keep them all close.

know what? dont hate people, dont get upset just because they've hurt you. they dont mean it, sometimes it really is inevitable.

Because when all else fails, you can easily kill them all with Kindness.

i love all of you. and you should love you.

my all,
jess.